#1 Desire and live life according to your own appetites
Stop mourning and start living. Your bad situation is never going to get better unless you get over yourself, move on and do something about it.
#2 We aren’t saints
You do not have to love everyone. Homophobes and racists are horrible people. There you go, I said it.
#3 Love the world, not your agenda of the world
Take each day as it comes and live it through. Do not problematise emptiness. Things are never going to go as planned. So stop planning, and keep swimming. Just do not be so stupid as to swim against the current mindlessly.
#4 Choose your battles wisely
Say this more often: “I prefer not to”. Take your individuation and run. Fear not. If we all lose in life anyway, (so laments Unamuno), then what else is one afraid of losing?
#5 Find your Dory
Never lose yourself. Ever. Again.